228 The Sugar, The Secrets, and the Nervous System (All The Way to the River Elizabeth Gilbert)
Feb 19, 2026
After reading All the Way to the River by Elizabeth Gilbert, I found myself unexpectedly confronted with themes of addiction, secrecy, nervous system regulation, and codependency. This is a vulnerable episode.
What began as discomfort turned into reflection.
In this episode, I explore:
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My long history with sugar addiction
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The secrecy and self-deception that accompany addiction
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How addiction regulates an unregulated nervous system
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Why addiction can be a survival strategy for an aching soul
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The connection between codependency and parenting
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The role of boundaries in healing
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The deeper work of authenticity and self-worth
I share openly about binge eating, shame, emotional wounds from adolescence, and the decades-long process of unwinding dependency patterns.
This is not a conversation about judgment.
It’s a conversation about honesty.
Because sometimes the books that make us squirm are the ones that show us where we still have room to grow.
If you have ever:
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Used food to cope
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Struggled with hidden behaviors
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Found yourself people-pleasing to feel loved
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Or felt shame around past parenting choices
This episode is for you.
Healing is layered.
Growth is ongoing.
And you are not alone.
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